Our Wonderful Friend, Lois Swenson

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Sentiments...


Pat Jordan...“It’s very difficult, because she was such a giving, open person, She was an advocate of assisting other people who needed help, and people loved her. She made such an impression on so many others, and that is her legacy,”

 

Joe Hesla..."She was 24-hours a day peace and justice. She didn't spare anybody. She would get in her friends' faces about how they lived their life and she'd go up to total strangers and talk to them about issues and she just never stopped. She never stopped."

 

The Ormans..."This is so unbelievable to us. Lois was such a gentle soul. Paul and I are stunned. We are in Korea right now and wish we could be with you all to grieve this great loss. Please know that we are with you in spirit. Peace."

 

Teferi.Fufa..."Dear all, I too am at a loss for words over the loss we all feel. We all know her as a true activist for human rights. She was not much for theory. She was always practical. She did what needed to be done. I also realized that she was a teacher and she taught by doing. I learnt much from her. Deep down I knew she will be gone someday. But I never expected it to be this way. Let us all keep in touch…"


Bill Swing on June 14th..."Dear Friends of Lois,   It is with much sadness that I write this Caringbridge journal entry.  For those of you who have not yet been notified, Lois died this past week the details of which are not clear.   I'm sure all will agree with me - we have lost one terrific friend and advocate for the underprivileged.   For me - much of who I am, I owe to Lois.  So much have I learned from her - never lecturing me... never uncomfortable arguments...but mostly though her fine example and obvious concern for the poor and disadvantaged.  Lois - we'll miss you much!  Thank you, thank you, thank you...for who you were...for everything!  You were such a wonderful person!!.

 

Roberta Olson... "A pure and beautiful light, one that has guided me and so many others here and in the world, is now out. I am at a loss to say any more."


Daniel... "To others I know and don't, it is very hard for me and many Oromo friends that she had made since 1979, to accept the reality that a fine human being is gone. She campaigned for justice, equality and peace. She taught us how to recycle and save but never got mad at anyone when we got comfortable with using use-and-throw-away things. I guess she never had room in her heart for words like, "greed" and "anger", the cause of many conflicts in the world. It is very hard to imagine that someone is as cruel as that to take her life away.  May God give her the final rest and peace, for which she struggled for so many years. Those of us that are still around really need a lot of strength to hang in there."


 

By Linda Thomson...


A brilliant star has fallen from the sky,
The night is darker and the sun less bright.
How blessed we were to have had an earthly angel,
And agent of change,  living in our neighborhood. 
 
Your life was a sermon lived; of charity, action, commitment
And love for youth.
Humble, overflowing with ideas for change, challenging damaging
timeworn practices,
By living your  values you created a path for others to follow.
 
Dearest Lois, neither wife nor mother, yet you mothered, nurtured and modeled
a life of integrity,  wisdom and joy to the countless
Folks you drew into the family of your creation.
 
We mourn your loss but honor you by committing ourselves to
Being annoying gnats and speaking truth to power.
We’ll ask questions, many if necessary, walk unannounced into minister’s and
principals’ offices, and never stop asking, “What are you doing today to create justice,
Love the earth, and minister to the least of God’s children.”


Caroline Scully... "I lived with Lois for over two years in two different stints, spent a few weekends with her and with her family at their farm in Arena, and traveled with her to Mexico. Very sadly for me, I had not talked to her for a few years since moving to Massachusetts. I am so very sad about her death and the manner in which it happened. Her home was a haven for many people and she was the most genuine person I have ever known. She had and will continue to have a deep impact on me. I think of Lois now when I work in our community gardens and hope that she is looking kindly at me."


 

Lotti Matkovits...  Lois, you’ll always be a strong presence in my life thanks to the imprint you left on my heart, and  “WWLD” will continue to guide me through my days! BUT, I miss you so! I miss your laughter, your sense of humor, your ability to laugh at  your endearing quirks. I’ll miss your spontaneity, and your fun surprises - such as on my special birthday; also, no more secretly planted seedlings in my flower boxes (coming from the overflowing abundance in your garden); no more bags of fresh, organic produce greeting me on my doorstep! And, when women friends gather at my home for the traditional year-end get together, there will be a huge void from now on, because you won’t be there to share your vision  and intentions for the coming year with us…..

Peace to you, dear friend



Patty Guerrero - "The following passage from Matthew 6:25-34 sounds like Lois”:

Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes?  Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labour or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?

So do not worry, saying, ``What shall we eat?'' or ``What shall we drink?'' or ``What shall we wear?''   Your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.





THE POINT IS TO SAVOR LIFE

(by friends of Lois Swenson)


The point is to savor life.

To see each person as imminently worthwhile getting to know.

To build neighborhoods, communities and global villages over a cup of tea or a shared lawnmowing sheep.

To share your vegetables and garden space with others, even when you speak different languages.

To save water with this message on your bathroom wall: “If it’s yellow, let it mellow; if it’s brown, flush it down.”      

To invite your neighbors to enjoy hot showers at your house when their plumbing is on the fritz, even when it means being 2 hours late for your own birthday party.

To recycle the trash being tossed on garbage day even it if means taking it home, washing and fixing it and storing it until a new owner appears.

 

The point is to savor life.

To raise organic chickens on a hay wagon.

To send carloads of clothing to migrant workers.

To walk in solidarity with the worlds poor and disenfranchised.

To see even an old worn out shoe can serve as a pot for a happy geranium.

To grow milkweed for the Monarchs.

To protest unsustainable and unjust acts of all kinds.

 

The point is to savor life.

To speak truth to power, pastors, priests, pontiffs of whatever sort. (Carol Masters)

To share a delicious meal prepared from the food found left on the sidewalks in Madison. (Connie Cordaba, Argentina)

To take country kids to the city, and city kids to the country. (Cathy Carpenter)

To take country people to the really poor for enlightenment. (Cathy Carpenter)

 

The point is to savor life.

To find the perfect gift for me (a University of St. Thomas tee shirt) in a dumpster. (Roger-Jo Cuthbertson-Schubert)

To ask a group of eager, questioning, confused seminarians meeting the indigenous people of Chiapas for the first time, "So what are you going to DO now?" (Karen Larson)

To adventure in Mazatlan and Culiacan, to find the peacemakers and to connect them to the bored vacationers. (Meredith Sommers)

To bring Abraham of Ethiopia to Hunger Action Coalition, looking for a place to spend the night, and he lived with our family for almost a year. (Meredith Sommers)

To inspire 8 year old Rane (with a gesture in no way vain) to cut 10 inches off her hair (she’ll hardly notice it’s not there) to Pantene Beautiful Lengths in honor of Sweeney’s immense strengths.  (Roxi Zilmer)

To explain to Minneapolis teenager how her morning breakfast sandwich from McDonalds came from South America. (Liz Erickson)

 

The point is to savor life.

To help raise your neighbor's children--ensuring that they too know how to picket, scavage dumpsters, and distribute literature. (Charlotte Vick)

To enjoy hearing those same children ask their mother whether the bread served at dinner came from Lois--and the dumpster. (Charlotte Vick)


To be a role model for all the strong women who admire and love you so much. (Charlotte Vick)


To bring great people from a variety of cultures to the common table for a common purpose. (Charlotte Vick)

 

The point is to savor life.


To use the ripe aroma of your compost heap to remind the neighbors that organic gardening really means going back to the soil. (Charlotte Vick)


To use the rare teachable moment of disinterested Americans vacationing on a luxury cruise to raise awareness. (Charlotte Vick)

To grow in awareness from that 60’s gal you were, replete with matching hat and gloves, through world hunger efforts, earning the admiration of more people than I thought possible. (Charlotte Vick)

The point is to savor life.

To raise happy chickens and be a happy chicken. (MeredithSommers)

To accept the love of your friends who are returning the love you've always shown them. (Charlotte Vick)

 

The point is to savor life.

To face down disease and not go peaceably where it would lead.

To fight it with light and peace and loving friends and to triumphantly be restored to good health.

To survive her 74th year of life (which sucked big time) and to arrive at age 75, sense of humor intact, gratitude in life expanded, with energy to burn to keep the world on its toes for another year!!!


The point is you savor life and show us all how it’s done!!!


Nicole Hiedeman

For Lois:
Your spirit is alive
I feel it everyday
More, now than ever
You encouraged ever so gently
Fresh eggs from the backyard
Produce from the front
Where once there was green grass
Now there is substance, beautiful substance
Somehow you were speaking to me all these years
Your spirit will continue to guide me
I will hear your whisper

 



Kathy (Hermanson) Rotto

Friend from Luther College
Kathy nicknamed Lois ‘Sweeny.’

Sweeny said, “Life isn’t about finding yourself.  It’s about creating yourself.”
 
Sweeny created herself into of the most unforgettable characters in my life without even trying.  She just didn’t talk the talk…she walked the walk every day.